From the outside people may question why a victim would feel guilty if (s)he wasn't at least partially responsible. To them self-blame is may indicate that this wasn't a sexual assault at all, or even that the victim is making up the story. Yet self-blame, guilt, and doubt are all totally normal and expected responses to sexual victimization.
For a new perspective on why these responses are actually adaptive (*at least in the short-term) check out this Upworthy doodle by psychologist Nina Burrowes. She draws cartoons that help people to understand sexual abuse and recover. Yes, there are good reasons why victims blame themselves... it helps them recover.
If you or someone you care about
has experienced relationship or sexual abuse, there is help.
You Are Not Alone.
DVRC can help; call us at 518-583-0280 for an appointment
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