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Tuesday, January 21, 2014

17th Annual Bartenders' Ball

Never been to the Ball? Or have you been many times? Either way you won't want to miss this year's Ball. We've kept everything you love about the Ball and made it even better. How?

While the Audiostars are always a crowd pleaser, we're upping the dancing excitement. The Roaring 20's-Gatsby Era theme promises to be a hit; what  era  better sparks energy and fun on the dance floor? You're sure to see a flapper or two during the evening.


The Lions Club will host a Casino room again, so you may just leave the Ball with more money in your pocket than when you came. And if you missed the music while you were gaming last year, we've got a surprise for you. Holly and Evan will entertain you as you spin the roulette wheel.

Some things haven't changed:
  • the delicious hors d'oeuvres (yes we'll have those colossal shrimp again!)
  • scrumptious dinner buffet
  • martini bar
  • craft beer bar
  • chocolate fountain  and dessert bar .
 
As always, advance reservations only. The Ball sells out each year so call 583-0280 to reserve your seat today 
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Friday, January 17, 2014

Saratoga's Code Blue... Miracles happen just off Broadway in Saratoga Springs Too.

"Miracles don't only happen on 34th Street"
Nancy Pitts probably never imagined herself as a catalyst for community change. Indeed, while she was known and seen by many locally every day, it was through her tragic death that she rallied our community to open their hearts and take action to help the homeless. Nancy was a homeless woman who lived on the streets in a city that is know for wealth, tourism, community spirit  and citizens who give back to their community.


Nancy, who grew up locally, had once had a different life. She was married, a stay-at-home mom raising children (now grown)... until a series of life circumstances launched a downward spiral into  alcohol that ended with her dying on the streets of Saratoga in a frigid December night last month.


Nancy could be outspoken. In fact, just a month before her death I heard her speak at a Homelessness Awareness Week event  about how hard it is living on the street. She talked about people ignoring you and not even caring... and others who mock, harass, and assault the homeless. Her words reached an audience of about 40 participants at the event... an event held annually to increase awareness of homelessness in a community that finds it hard to believe that there are homeless persons in our city. Nancy's voice was  one of the most memorable that night, but it reached just 40 people. It was just a foreshadowing of her impact just one month later in bringing the plight of homeless into our consciousness.


When her body was found frozen behind the Senior Center, that message about hardship shifted from our heads to our hearts. The community immediately came together to launch a Code Blue shelter to afford a safe , warm place for the homeless on bitter winter nights. A meeting was held on Friday and the shelter was operational for  the next night where temperatures would fall to 10 degrees. Not only was this just 4 days later, it was also Christmas  Eve; yet people altered their plans to volunteer.  My son and I volunteered several days later, as 15 Code Blue guests gratefully accepted the warmth and safety of the temporary shelter at St. Peter's Church, the camaraderie of volunteers who played games, watched videos and chatted with the guests throughout the night, and the sustenance of food donated by our local restaurants and home baked treats brought in by volunteers.


And the unseasonably chill temperatures   led to a series of Code Blue nights on those first two weeks. In the 16 days between Christmas Eve and January 8th, there were 10 Code Blue nights, offering a total of 119 warm beds for folks who would otherwise be sleeping on the streets.  In today's Saratogian, Elizabeth Powers writes her moving account of a brief encounter with Nancy just days before her death... and the wonderful initiative that our community launched in response to this tragedy. Elizabeth concludes, "Miracles don't only happen on 34th Street."


I've worked for years with the Saratoga County Housing Committee to increase awareness and services for the homeless. We're regularly surprised that, despite our efforts, in a community that is so giving and compassionate,  many people don't realize there are homeless people in our county. Through Nancy's familiarity, her voice and her tragic death we are all aware of homelessness now... and working together to end it.









Thursday, January 16, 2014

The Excitement of the Roaring 20's is back in Saratoga

Reliving the Roaring 20's at the Saratoga Automobile Museum


Need to perk up from the mid-winter blues? Imagine this- tantalizing hors d’oeuvres, a full dinner buffet,  martini bar, craft beer bar, chocolate fountain.… and all-night dancing to live music by the Audiostars! And the excitement of the Roaring 20’s continues with gaming in the casino room and entertainment by Holly and Evan. That’s what you can expect at the 17th annual Bartenders' Ball on Saturday, February 8th from 6:30pm to midnight at the Saratoga Springs City Center.

Dress for fun and dancing as this year’s theme is the Roaring 20’s Gatsby Era. Year after year, the Bartenders’ Ball is still the best event in town! Come and find out who is Saratoga County’s best bartender as we announce the winners of the most Valuable Bartender Contest.

All proceeds support Domestic Violence and Rape Crisis Services of Saratoga County’s emergency domestic violence shelter. Last year alone the shelter provided 2,612 bed nights of safe housing to domestic violence victims and their children fleeing abuse.

Tickets are just 60 dollars per person. The ball is always a sellout, so advance reservations only. Call 583-0280 for information and reservations.

Thursday, January 9, 2014

Parents... Here's the Cliff Notes on How Alcohol Affects your Teen's Brain

We all know the risks of underage drinking: addiction, car crashes, unwanted sexual activity, risk taking. Some of these consequences apply to adult drinkers also.But we sometimes forget that alcohol affects developing bodies-- and developing brains-- very differently than adult ones.


Mike Nerney is a renowned expert on adolescent brain development. In this short video he packs in everything you need to know about why underage drinking  is such a concern (and also some tips to mitigate some of those risks.) At the 7 minute mark he gives parents 3 basic strategies to guide their teens safely around decisions about alcohol use.

Friday, December 20, 2013

The Real Face of Homelessness

This season resonates with what is perhaps the most well known story of homelessness...that of a child born in a manger who was to be the salvation for all our sins. In some ways this story glamorizes what it means to be on the streets. While Joseph and Mary were only temporarily without shelter as they traveled, I think we forget the pain, frustration and panic they must have felt. A pregnant woman traveling days upon  a donkey only to have nowhere safe indoors to give birth. Finally the only protection from the elements they could find was in a feeding stall amid animals. In desperation this is where their baby was born.

When we envision the manger scene we see a clean stall with gentle docile animals watching over the infant Jesus...with a guiding star illuminating the beatific parents and their small swaddled child...and three royal kings bringing precious gifts. In my mind I see a frightened young couple, shunned time and again by the community, trying to protect their baby and stay safe.

Thankfully for most of us homelessness is an abstract;. Trying to understand, we ask ourselves,  "What choices or misfortunes lead to homelessness. Why do some people actually choose homelessness when other option are available?  Seeking Solace in Homeless Shelters gives us a glimpse into this descent into homelessness and how for some people a shelter or even   living on the streets is actually a choice for safety.

Friday, December 6, 2013

A Second Grader and already a Hero

I often write about everyday folks who are heroes, simply because they step up, speak out or take action to help others. I truly believe that it's this daily awareness and small acts of kindness done regularly that hold the key to ending bullying and  relationship abuse. Sometimes all it takes is someone pointing out an injustice for us to realize that we've been part of the problem.

I think most of us feel powerless to tackle really big social issues... where would we start? But every one of us can make a difference by taking action right where we are when we see a problem. It's really so simple a 2nd grader could do it... and one has.

The Huffington Past reports that Christian Bucks of York, Pennsylvania saw that some kids in his school were lonely during recess and took action. Check out his Buddy Bench. It's a great example of compassion and action.

Thursday, December 5, 2013

Real Talk from a Real Man


The only thing necessary for the triumph of evil
is for good men to do nothing.
                                                              Edmund Burke
 
Here's one man doing what he can to end relationship and sexual violence. I think the strongest part of Jeremy Loveday's video
is that these acts aren't committed by monsters, but by ordinary men. But ordinary men also have the power to change our social norms... just by speaking out.
 
"because by Choosing Silence ...we're Allowing for Violence."
 
Big change comes from small acts of courage- acts as simple as not laughing when a colleague tells a sexist joke.
 
Take three minutes to watch the video. Let's hear more voices of everyday heroes, like Jeremy Loveday 
 
Let's work together to end relationship and sexual violence.


Related posts:

 Here's a Guy who Deserves Respect

 Patrick Stewart Speaking Out

Tuesday, December 3, 2013

Celebrating our Unstung Heroes

UnSTUNG Heroes... was that a typo? Was it supposed to be Unsung Heroes? Nope.  UnSTUNG heroes are our local stores  who 'pass the test' when law enforcement operates a sting to identify if businesses are selling alcohol to minors. Caitlin Morris of the Saratogian summed it up nicely,
"New York State Police sent underage and undercover operatives to 32 establishments to try and purchase alcohol Saturday and not one drop of alcohol was sold to them."

That's not unusual. Throughout Saratoga County most establishments regularly fare well on these sting operations. So where are underage drinkers getting their alcohol. The answer may surprise you. Surveys of teens indicate that most underage drinkers access alcohol at home, either with parents knowledge (i.e., providing alcohol for their kids and friends) or by just taking it from their parents' supply.  What can you do to reduce underage drinking?
  • Talk to your kids about it. Let them know that you don't condone drinking and why. Believe it or not, parents are the most significant influence in  preventing underage drinking... they really do listen.
  • Don't provide alcohol for your teen's friends.
  • Educate yourself about how alcohol use impacts the adolescent brain.
Related posts:
http://maggiefronk.blogspot.com/2013/08/back-to-school-101-drinking-and-drugs.html
http://maggiefronk.blogspot.com/2013/03/teen-drinking-start-conversation.html

Monday, December 2, 2013

Be a Cyber Shopping Philanthropist

I love doing my holiday shopping snuggled up on the couch near the woodstove...yup, it 's holiday magic. I press a button and 2 days later Santa's cyber-patrol  elves deliver the packages right to my porch. And I've found something that makes on-line shopping even better- Goodshop.

Use Goodshop.com when you shop online and they donate a percentage of every purchase and offer over 100,000 coupons to help you save money too! It's really easy; it's free and turns simple everyday actions into a way to make the world a better place.

I also use Goosdsearch.com to search the Internet and they donate a penny every time I search the Web.  And if you like to eat out sign up for their Gooddining program and they'll donate a percentage of your restaurant bill when you eat at any one of thousands of participating restaurants.

Go to www.goodsearch.com to get started. Please sign up today to help me support Domestic Violence and Rape Crisis Services of Saratoga County or choose your own favorite charity to support. It's an easy way to make your holiday giving keep on giving.