tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11244099837317722982024-03-13T15:33:19.081-04:00Shine a Light Ending relationship and sexual abuse in Saratoga County.Mfronkhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09151066365583236310noreply@blogger.comBlogger472125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1124409983731772298.post-75213107503339987092018-11-29T15:08:00.002-05:002018-11-29T15:08:47.288-05:00Always... show them what it means to perform 'like a girl'
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that famous Superbowl commercial in 2015 by Always that asked young </span>people to do things “#LikeAGirl?” <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Cambria;">The idea for that groundbreaking commercial was developed
after Fama Francisco, vice president of Always, and her colleagues analyzed
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<span style="font-family: Cambria;">The Always commercial was powerful for many reasons – not
only did it demonstrate the power of our words, but it also reminded us that
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<span style="font-family: Cambria;">Young girls who were prompted with phrases such as “show me
what it means to run like a girl” demonstrated running as fast as they could –
they demonstrated actions with power, strength, and athleticism in every
prompt.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>However, older girls (and boys)
given the same prompts did not show the same enthusiasm, but instead showed comedic
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<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-family: Cambria;">When femininity
becomes synonymous with weakness, embarrassment, and fragility, it is no wonder
Francisco and her team found these results among girls reaching what is commonly
regarded as a significant symbolic marker of “womanhood”.<o:p></o:p></span></b></div>
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<span style="font-family: Cambria;">As demonstrated through the commercial, these messages can
profoundly shape our perspectives on gender equality: when we treat girls and
women as if they are weak and fragile, we begin to believe that they are
inferior.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">And as this perspective becomes reinforced over time through social
norms and gendered expectations, violence against women and girls often becomes
normalized, excused, and justified.</b><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Cambria;">Intimate partner violence occurs when one person has the
desire to gain or maintain power and control over their intimate partner.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Cambria;">While anyone can perpetrate or be a victim of intimate
partner violence, this issue disproportionately affects women and girls because
it is a manifestation of how, we as a society, view women and girls. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-family: Cambria;">Ending relationship
violence in our community requires a strong commitment to challenging and
changing the social norms that allow relationship violence to continue. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></b></div>
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<span style="font-family: Cambria;">In conjunction with Coaching Boys Into Men, Wellspring coordinates
a similar program for high school athletes on girls’ sports teams: Athletes As
Leaders aims to empower female-identified youth to take an active role in
promoting healthy relationships, build a positive culture within their team,
and end sexual violence. Throughout their season, athletes discuss the root
causes of violence and work to generate new social norms for their team, and
their school community. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Cambria;">Results from a national evaluation on the efficacy of
Athletes As Leaders are incredibly promising: after completion of the program,
participants showed statistically significant improvement in their ability to
identify abusive behaviors, improvement in their beliefs in gender equity, and
increased self-image and confidence. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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voice than you think.” <o:p></o:p></span></b></div>
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relationship and sexual abuse starts with engaging our communities to change
what it means to do things #LikeAGirl.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
Mfronkhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09151066365583236310noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1124409983731772298.post-85824549069235916142018-09-06T11:58:00.000-04:002018-09-06T11:58:44.564-04:00What's Happening This October?<br />
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<span style="font-family: "calibri";">As many of you know, October is Domestic Violence
awareness month – and last October there was a strong Purple Purse buzz flowing
throughout Saratoga County. A buzz that resulted in our community raising <b>more than $80,000</b> in one month for the families that Wellspring serves daily. Because
of your generosity, Wellspring placed #3 in the nation… thank you!<o:p><span style="font-family: "calibri";"> </span></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "calibri";">A lot of you have been asking about Purple Purse
this year? Because of the amazing amount of time, effort, resources and support
that you all showed Wellspring last year, we have decided to take a break from
Purple Purse this year as a way of saying <b>thank you</b>. That being said,
there are still plenty of opportunities for you to help us raise awareness
about our mission and the work we do every day. <o:p><span style="font-family: "calibri";"> </span></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "calibri";">We are always looking for community partners to help
support our events – through sponsorship, tickets, and spreading the word to
your families, friends, and colleagues. As the school year begins, we are eager
for more community partners to engage in our Coaching Boys Into Men<sup><span style="font-size: x-small;">R</span></sup>
and Athletes as Leaders<sup><span style="font-size: x-small;">R</span></sup> programs. In addition to that, we are
always willing and excited to come to talk to anyone about our programs and
services – whether it is your youth group, your book club, your sales team etc.
we are here for you as a resource and friend.<o:p><span style="font-family: "calibri";"> </span></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "calibri";">Our vision is a community free from relationship abuse –
a vision that will only be made possible by the support of a community like
ours. <b>Thank you</b> for all you have done and for all you continue to
do. </span></div>
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<a href="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-nf7mwNYcCSY/W5FKBaoltxI/AAAAAAAACF4/q2f59MOsfVw6pEKoxvhtlOff97qmvwImACLcBGAs/s1600/20170823_130634.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1200" data-original-width="1600" height="240" src="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-nf7mwNYcCSY/W5FKBaoltxI/AAAAAAAACF4/q2f59MOsfVw6pEKoxvhtlOff97qmvwImACLcBGAs/s320/20170823_130634.jpg" width="320" /></a><a href="https://3.bp.blogspot.com/-9-tao-MWKzc/W5FLA1DJ7SI/AAAAAAAACGg/xNwlRjeitycm45JqRbIuJzJqvGoUyZUOwCLcBGAs/s1600/IMG_20170911_101200866.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1600" data-original-width="900" height="320" src="https://3.bp.blogspot.com/-9-tao-MWKzc/W5FLA1DJ7SI/AAAAAAAACGg/xNwlRjeitycm45JqRbIuJzJqvGoUyZUOwCLcBGAs/s320/IMG_20170911_101200866.jpg" width="180" /></a><span style="font-family: "calibri";">And because you folks really rocked October last year, let's have a throwback Thursday moment and revisit some photos of our Purple Purse Champions. Want to see all our Champions and hear their words about why they care so deeply about Wellspring's work? Just click <a href="https://wellspringcares.tumblr.com/PPL">here</a></span><br />
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On September 29th grab a leash and your favorite pooch and join us in Congress Park for the kickoff to Domestic Violence Awareness Month at the 7th Annual Pooch Parade.<br />
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And call up your favorite gal friends and join us at Longfellows on October 11th for Girlfriends Helping Girlfriends.<br />
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For more info on both events click <a href="http://www.wellspringcares.org/donate-wellspring/events/">here</a></div>
Mfronkhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09151066365583236310noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1124409983731772298.post-82476371239172933012018-07-19T12:16:00.001-04:002018-07-19T12:16:51.863-04:00"You cannot silence the strong forever"
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;"><span style="font-size: large;">At last night’s ESPYS 140 survivors of sexual
victimization joined hands as they accepted the Arthur Ashe Courage Award
on behalf of hundreds of child athletes who have been victimized. Their
presence represented more than 30 years’ of violation. Olympic gymnast, Aly Raisman,
cited the years that athletes tried to tell people about Larry Nassar’s
abuse, and no one listened… 1997, 1998, 1999, 2000, 2004, 2011, 2013, 2014,
2015, 2016. She noted their intent was to silence the athletes “in favor of
money, medals, and reputation.” As the audience members stood in solidarity
with the athletes, there were nods, tears, smiles of support… and a shared
realization that we’ve entered an era when silencing victims isn’t
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just children when they represented their team, their support and their
country. Former Michigan State softball player Tiffany Thomas Lopez, noted
that , “Tonight we stand here and it feels like we’re finally winning…. You
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like to give thanks for their courage. Courage that has broken the code of
silence and deception. Courage that has made us all understand. Courage
that will create change so that other women, other athletes, other children
may never experience the same violation and so that we all will realize our
part in ending abuse. Raisman noted. “Predators thrive in silence; whether
you act or do nothing you are shaping the world you live in.” She noted
that if just one adult had listened, had believed, and had taken action….
the athletes standing on that stage… and many others…. would never have met
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Mfronkhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09151066365583236310noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1124409983731772298.post-8181823117690807102018-06-29T16:52:00.000-04:002018-06-29T16:52:35.303-04:00#MeToo- What They Heard After Finding Their Voice<span style="font-size: large;">Yesterday's New York Times featured an article titled </span><a href="https://www.nytimes.com/interactive/2018/06/28/arts/metoo-movement-stories.html?smid=fb-nytimes&smtyp=cur"><span style="font-size: large;">"How Saying #MeToo Changed Their Lives".</span></a><span style="font-size: large;"> It featured 20 men and women who spoke about about their</span> <span style="font-size: large;">experiences of sexual assault or harassment and the positive, negative, unexpected, and healing emotions and interactions they encountered as a result of publicly saying #MeToo.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">All over the nation, conversations are happening about formerly taboo topics, about social norms that we never questioned (even when they felt really uncomfortable and hurt people we cared about), and about what our personal role is in this highly charges social issue.</span><span style="font-size: large;"> </span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">Some people find liberation and support as they tell stories that they've kept secret for weeks, years or decades about being victimized. Some find confirmation as others say, "That sounds just like what he did to me." Other experience judgments, "How did you let that happen to you?" Or isolation, "No one reached out" or "I was shunned in my workplace/career." Some begin to probe the depths of how their victimization and silence has affected their lives, "[it] <span style="font-family: -apple-system-font; line-height: 107%; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-bidi; mso-fareast-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-latin;"><em>opened
up other issues that were exacerbated by the abuse, though not directly
related. Issues such as my own sense of confidence, and why I was one of the
ones chosen."</em> </span><br />
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very hard as a black woman to call out powerful black men because we have no
heroes to spare. We are always, still, fighting this uphill battle, always
trying to overcome this myth of the predatory black man. So the last thing you
want to do is contribute to that in any way. It’s complicated as a black woman
— do you take it for the team? Which is what I did for 22 years. Or do you
insist that you, too, deserve dignity, physical safety and respect? That was
very hard for me and it’s literally why I kept the secret for all these years.
I didn’t want to tear down a black man, let alone two. But what they did was
wrong</span>.</em></span></div>
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the article, my daughter posted on Facebook: ‘My mother, social justice
warrior.’ I really kind of got elevated in her eyes. I’m proud of myself.</em></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: -apple-system-font;">We honor the courage of the many women and men who have shared their personal experiences of victimization. In order for change to happen these issues need to come out of the shadows and we need to hear the pain and injustice that survivors have encountered... but hearing those stories an feel poignantly raw and real. I<span style="font-family: -apple-system-font;">f the recent media attention about issues of sexual harassment has affected you or someone you know, call Wellspring we understand and we're here to help. </span></span><br />
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<br />Mfronkhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09151066365583236310noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1124409983731772298.post-26620692386251912712017-12-29T21:29:00.000-05:002017-12-29T21:29:43.811-05:00Let’s Create a New Vision of “Me Too” in 2018 <span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 107%; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">Looking
back at 2017, it’s impossible not to notice how issues of gender inequality, harassment
and sexual violence were in the forefront of our consciousness throughout the
year…culminating in mid-October with a viral #MeToo twitterstorm that was a
rallying cry against gender based violence. #MeToo didn’t emerge from a vacuum…
for several years there’s been a steady increase in our society’s awareness and
concern about sexual violence. The accounts of sexual assault, harassment,
groping, and discrimination have garnered headlines. The names and stories of
respected men who are also perpetrators remain in our consciousness because we’ve
given these issues more attention than ever before— Ray Rice, Bill Cosby, Brock
Turner, Jameis Winston, Harvey Weinstein, </span><span lang="EN" style="color: black; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 107%;">Matt Lauer, Bill O’Reilly, Brett Ratner,
Louis C.K., US gymnastics doctor Larry Nassar, Bryan Singer, Kevin Spacey. Concepts
like “locker room talk”, consent, </span><span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 107%; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">intimidation, power and privilege have migrated from
HR offices to boardrooms, to locker rooms to water coolers</span><span lang="EN" style="color: black; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 107%;"> and to the family dinner table…and the
magnitude of this problem is shameful.<span lang="EN" style="color: black; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 107%;"><o:p><span style="font-family: "calibri";"> </span></o:p></span></span></span><br />
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<span lang="EN" style="color: black; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 107%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";">The voices
of courageous survivors sharing their experiences has made it clear that sexual
victimization is more pervasive than we’ve ever acknowledged. It’s not the
occasional perpetrator who ‘behaves badly’. We’ve got people in positions of
power in sports, education, politics, entertainment, tech-everywhere- who
routinely commit acts of gender based violence…. and we look the other way. There
will always be people who choose to victimize; our problem is that we are a
society that tacitly condones these behaviors when the person committing the
acts is well-liked or important or talented or successful. Where we go from
here? <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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solution lies with all of us. We have the power and responsibility to change
the norms that allow sexual violence to continue. As these public figures have
been exposed for harassing, intimidating or perpetrating sexual assault, it’s also
come to light that their colleagues were often aware of these behaviors… but rarely
confronted them. Even if they personally abhorred these behaviors, their
silence condoned them. Imagine if instead, they’d confronted or exposed the
behaviors….there might be far fewer individuals responding with #MeToo. Imagine
if fathers, coaches, and friends gave voice to the importance of respect and consent.
Most men do not commit acts of sexual aggression… yet we tolerate a social norm
of toxic masculinity that reveres the conquest. What if instead, men and women
fostered positive social norms that celebrated equality, choice, and
communication as hallmarks of masculinity?</span></span></div>
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my favorite symbols of hope in the path toward social change comes from a
recent rape case. Brock Turner, better known as the Stanford swimmer, was in the
process of sexually assaulting an unconscious young woman behind a dumpster.
Two men on bicycles saw the act, interrupted it and chased him down. The young
women who survived his assault sleeps with a drawing of two bicycles over her
bed… a reminder that any one of us can be a hero for someone. <o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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we can end relationship and sexual abuse. The MeToo I’d like to see in the future
is not the voices of more courageous survivors telling their stories… but a
commitment from each of us to say “Me Too” in taking action to end sexual violence.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
Mfronkhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09151066365583236310noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1124409983731772298.post-24221852122627708962017-12-19T16:44:00.000-05:002017-12-19T16:44:23.663-05:00To the god of doorways... and noticing the silence <span style="font-size: large;">The Roman god Janus was the god of doorways, transitions, and new beginnings. It's fitting that the our first month was named in his honor, because we spend those first days of the new year contemplating where we've been, where we'd like to be and sometimes making resolutions to help us achieve those goals. </span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">Looking back at 2016, I'm struck by how much the issues of sexual harassment, domestic violence, and sexual assault have dominated coverage of news, sports, Hollywood, politics, even the tech world. These conversations aren't totally new; 2014 seems so long ago when Ray Rice's infamous act of domestic violence was captured on video, doesn't it? Yet, the cadence and depth of covering these stories seemed to increase significantly in 2017, culminating with the #MeToo campaign that went viral with thousands of women disclosing their own stories of sexual harassment or sexual victimization.</span> <span style="font-size: large;">2017 was a year of reducing the silence and stigma of sexual victimization, and recognizing the strength of survivors who are willing to tell these very personal and traumatic stories to help us understand the magnitude of the problem, so we can create change. </span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><em>She is faceless on the cover and remains nameless inside TIME’s red borders, but her appearance is an act of solidarity, representing all those who are not yet able to come forward and reveal their identities."</em></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">And that's the doorway we are all standing in. We've brought the issue of gender based violence into our consciousness... many survivors still are haunted by their victimization... but the fear that constrains them today is what would happen if they gave voice to their stories of victimization. Those who nod knowingly, but who don't tell their own stories outnumber the many who have said #MeToo. May 2018 bring us out of the doorway to a place where They Too can feel safe.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;"></span><br />Mfronkhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09151066365583236310noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1124409983731772298.post-8432850111299696612017-10-27T18:14:00.000-04:002017-10-27T18:14:00.531-04:0026...3... 3.5 ...70,000... InfiniteI've got a lot of numbers in my head today. <br />
<span style="font-size: x-large;">26</span> It's been 26 days since the launch of the Purple Purse Challenge.<br />
<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-size: x-large;">3</span> </span><span style="font-size: small;">We're currently in third place in the nation. </span><br />
<span style="font-size: x-large;">3.5</span> We've got 3.5 days left in the Challenge. <br />
<span style="font-size: x-large;">70,000 </span> We're about to reach $70,000 in funds donated to Wellspring by our community since October 2nd.<br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">Infinite.</span> How grateful I feel by the overwhelming support of our community.. and inspired that by working together we truly can end relationship and sexual abuse. From local businesses (an extra big thanks to the members of the Saratoga Springs DBA), to the community leaders who gave voice to why our work is so important, to faith organizations , and individual people who gave so generously from their hearts.<br />
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I don't think there's been anyone more excited about the Challenge than Jesse Jackson at Look TV. He's had me as a guest on the show so many times this month that he's seen my entire purple wardrobe... and has a new moniker for me. <a href="http://www.looktvonline.com/wellspring-purple-purse-challenge-update-2017/">Click here</a> to find out what Jesse has named me now and hear what we talked about today. <br />
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So Jesse is reminding folks to support the Challenge by making their gift online before 1:59 October 31st at <a href="http://wellspringcares.org/purse">wellspringcares.org/purse</a><br />
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Mfronkhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09151066365583236310noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1124409983731772298.post-3175991527130335992017-10-25T19:40:00.000-04:002017-10-25T19:40:41.668-04:00Because She Sees Wellspring at the End of the Poem<br />
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<span style="color: black; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";">In the past few months I have been highlighting some incredible
people in our community who were gracious enough to work with us in our Purple
Purse Leaders campaign. Now that October is almost over and the campaign
is winding down, I wanted to highlight one group that holds a special place in
my heart.<span style="color: black; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";"><o:p> </o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="color: black; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";">Soroptimist International of Saratoga County is an organization
by women, for women. Their mission is to improve the lives of women and
girls through programs leading to social and economic empowerment. I’m
proud to have been a member for 11 years and am constantly amazed by all of
the things my sisters do. Let me introduce you to Marie Buckley Hoffman, the current President of our chapter. For
35 years she has been working as a teacher for hearing impaired children.
Yesterday, she shared a poem with me because she believed it related to our
work. <a href="https://wellspringcares.tumblr.com/tagged/Marie-Buckley-Hoffman">Click here</a> to hear why she cares and how the poem below inspires her commitment to Wellspring's work.</span></div>
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<span style="color: black; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="color: black; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";"><strong><span style="font-family: "times new roman";">Children Learn What They Live</span><span style="font-family: "times new roman";">By Dorothy Law Nolte, Ph.D.</span></strong></span></span></div>
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<span style="color: black; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";">If children live with criticism, they learn to condemn.<br />
If children live with hostility, they learn to fight.<br />
If children live with fear, they learn to be apprehensive.<br />
If children live with pity, they learn to feel sorry for themselves.<br />
If children live with ridicule, they learn to feel shy.<br />
If children live with jealousy, they learn to feel envy.<br />
If children live with shame, they learn to feel guilty.<br />
If children live with encouragement, they learn confidence.<br />
If children live with tolerance, they learn patience.<br />
If children live with praise, they learn appreciation.<br />
If children live with acceptance, they learn to love.<br />
If children live with approval, they learn to like themselves.<br />
If children live with recognition, they learn it is good to have a goal.<br />
If children live with sharing, they learn generosity.<br />
If children live with honesty, they learn truthfulness.<br />
If children live with fairness, they learn justice. <br />
If children live with kindness and consideration, they learn respect. <br />
If children live with security, they learn to have faith in themselves and in
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If children live with friendliness, they learn the world is a nice place in
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<span style="color: black; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";">If children live in homes with domestic violence, they learn
unhealthy habits that will follow them through life. But Marie told me
the other day she sees Wellspring at the end of the poem. Wellspring
shows children and victims of domestic violence compassion, acceptance and
kindness. Because of this, they learn so many important skills that will
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<span style="color: black; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";">All of my Soroptimist sisters have found their reasons for
supporting Wellspring. I’ve been showing the reasons so many of our
community leaders care as well. I've truly been moved hearing people talking from the heart about why they care. But what about you? Why do you care
about Domestic Violence, Sexual Assault and the work Wellspring does to end
these issues? Please let me know, either in the comments below or just if
you see me in the community.</span></div>
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<span style="color: black; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";">Do you want to help us make this world a nice place? Give today to the <span style="color: black; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";">Purple Purse Challenge at</span></span></div>
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<span style="color: black; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";">We've got just until 1:59 in the afternoon on October 31st to reach our goal in the Challenge, raising more funds for prevention so that all children live with honesty, security, friendliness, and kindness.</span></div>
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Mfronkhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09151066365583236310noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1124409983731772298.post-51385725900726034902017-10-22T19:17:00.000-04:002017-10-23T10:37:29.620-04:00Savvy Women on the Importance of Supporing Each Other<br />
<a href="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-gobq_G_94S0/We36K6ZDGdI/AAAAAAAAB0M/l2V759qTSD0XyfEU1oJN-vOky0xJF5rrACLcBGAs/s1600/Carly%2BHJ.png" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="155" data-original-width="123" height="200" src="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-gobq_G_94S0/We36K6ZDGdI/AAAAAAAAB0M/l2V759qTSD0XyfEU1oJN-vOky0xJF5rrACLcBGAs/s200/Carly%2BHJ.png" width="158" /></a><span style="font-size: large;">In her work as a life coach, Carly Hamilton Jones</span> <span style="font-size: large;">has seen the effects of domestic violence. </span><a href="https://wellspringcares.tumblr.com/tagged/Carly-Hamilton-Jones"><span style="font-size: large;">Click here</span></a><span style="font-size: large;"> to hear why she thinks Wellspring's work is important for our community.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">Many victims of domestic violence suffer in silence without ever telling anyone what's happening in the relationship; often they maintain this silence because they're embarrassed to admit they're being abused by a partner. It's not unusual for us to hear, "I don't know anyone else this has happened to." Actually one in four women will experience domestic violence in her lifetime. Ending domestic violence... and the stigma of it, starts with talking about the prevalence, the challenges, and owning that it's up to all of us to create the change to end abuse. </span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">Many folks have told me they had no idea about the scope of Wellspring's programs until they read the blog over the past month. So for a bit of fun, here's a little crossword challenge highlighting info about some of those lesser known programs.</span><br />
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<u1:p></u1:p><br />Mfronkhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09151066365583236310noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1124409983731772298.post-70347627748819139442017-10-20T19:38:00.000-04:002017-10-20T19:38:23.651-04:00Safe Harbour-- reaching out to each Jane Doe<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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In helping domestic violence victims, we often interface with other related social issues. Dave DeCelle of the National Center for Missing and Exploited Children, talks about how domestic violence intersects with their work.<br />
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This year, Soroptimist International of Saratoga County is working to raise awareness of trafficking issues. Our theme for the year is <em>Talk About It! </em>Before a Club meeting a month ago, members asked me for statistics on trafficking in Saratoga County... do we even have any trafficking that happens here? Yeah we do. John Kelly oversees the <a href="http://captaincares.org/get-help/trafficking.html">Saratoga County Safe Harbour Program</a>, a community response to sex trafficking. He provided the following statistics <span style="font-family: "calibri";">since July 2016 in Saratoga County</span>:<br />
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individuals under the age of 21 who have scored a “High Risk” level on the
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<span style="color: #1f497d;"><span style="color: black; font-family: "calibri";"><span style="color: #1f497d;"><span style="color: black;">I might also add, these are just the number of trafficking victims under the age of 21; Wellspring also assists trafficked persons over 21 years of age... so the problem is even greater than</span> <span style="color: black;">those stats.</span><br />
<span style="color: #1f497d;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="color: #1f497d;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: #1f497d;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="color: #1f497d;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="color: black;">At our monthly Soroptimist meeting, members were shocked at the numbers... in Saratoga County?! Frankly 4 years ago, before CAPTAIN and the Center for the Family collaborated to launch the Safe Harbour Program, these vulnerable youth probably wouldn't have been identified... or helped. What's happened in the past few years? We've all gotten training so we're better able to recognize trafficking... and know what resources there are to help a victim. We've developed teamwork between agencies so that we can pull together our resources to help vulnerable victims. CAPTAIN, the Center for the Family, Wellspring work together to increase awareness and provide crisis services and support. Wellspring hosted a training for first responders where CAPTAIN's street outreach team talked about the needs of vulnerable teens on the street-- how they get sucked into a world of sexual victimization... just to survive.</span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: #1f497d;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="color: #1f497d;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: #1f497d;"><span style="color: black; font-family: "calibri";"><span style="color: #1f497d;"></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span> </span></span></span><br />
<span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: #1f497d;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="color: #1f497d;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: #1f497d;"><span style="color: black; font-family: "calibri";"><span style="color: #1f497d;"><span style="color: black;">Most folks wouldn't imagine trafficking happens right here in our community... and wouldn't recognize it if they saw it. So how can we help? Let's increase our knowledge. Awareness is the first step to solving the problem.</span> <span style="color: black;">Here's an opportunity. On Thursday October 26th at 4 pm, Bow Tie Cinema at 19 Railroad Place in Saratoga Springs will have a showing of the film, <strong><em><a href="https://www.iamjanedoefilm.com/the-film/">I Am Jane Doe</a>.</em></strong> The film has been described as :</span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span><br />
<span style="color: #1f497d;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="color: #1f497d;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: #1f497d;"><span style="color: black; font-family: "calibri";"><span style="color: #1f497d;">“<em>a gripping legal thriller” (Esquire); “a powerful call to action” (The Los Angeles Times); “viscerally emotional” (The Washington Post), I Am Jane Doe chronicles the epic battle that several American mothers are waging on behalf of their middle-school daughters, victims of sex trafficking on Backpage.com, the classified advertising website that for years was part of the iconic Village Voice. Reminiscent of Erin Brockovich and Karen Silkwood, these mothers have stood up on behalf of thousands of other mothers, fighting back and refusing to take no for an answer.</em></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">And here's another easy way to make a difference for victims. <strong>Wellspring has just 10 days left to raise funds </strong>in Allstate's Purple Purse Challenge. It takes just seconds to make your donation online and help place first in the nation <strong>earning the $100,000 bonus</strong> from Allstate. Go just a few seconds to <strong>get us one step closer to ending relationship and sexual abuse in our community... </strong><a href="https://www.crowdrise.com/wellspring-purplepurse2017"><strong>click here to donate.</strong></a></span><br />
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Mfronkhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09151066365583236310noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1124409983731772298.post-78614661632635667632017-10-18T20:20:00.002-04:002017-10-20T19:48:40.106-04:00One Day... One Day Closer<a href="https://2.bp.blogspot.com/-wFeN8dO3ZWU/WedTlyXUs-I/AAAAAAAABx8/GDBemI8qT50pi8YUSp0Ue-b3g7IjgyksACLcBGAs/s1600/kids%2Band%2Bbutterflies.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1154" data-original-width="1600" height="287" src="https://2.bp.blogspot.com/-wFeN8dO3ZWU/WedTlyXUs-I/AAAAAAAABx8/GDBemI8qT50pi8YUSp0Ue-b3g7IjgyksACLcBGAs/s400/kids%2Band%2Bbutterflies.jpg" width="400" /></a><span style="font-size: large;">My sons are grown men now, but if there were Emmy nominations for reading to your kids, I'd probably have a series of trophies on my mantle (I delight in character voices, accents, suspense and timing when reading a kids' book). Malcolm Gladwell says the key to achieving expertise is dedicating 10,000 hours of practice to your craft. I'm pretty sure I spent at least that much time with the boys (and a cat) sitting in my lap as together we discovered how a book can open the door to any possibilities you can imagine. Dreams become reality when you're between the front and back cover of the book...and often ideas live on after the reader closes the book. Judith Viorst's <em><u>Alexander and the Terrible, Horrible, No Good, Very Bad Day</u></em>, monumentalized one day in the life of young Alexander. Allow me to share with you the story of my yesterday... with a working title of <em><u>Maggie and the Stressful but Exciting, Inspiring, Grateful, Hopeful, Really Wonderful Day!</u></em></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">So yesterday at 1:59 in the afternoon marked the end of week 2 of Allstate's Purple Purse Challenge.<em> </em>It was a big week as the 3 agencies that raised the most money during that week, would earn a $10,000 bonus. We're competing with about 125 agencies across the country... and they're all working hard for the survivors in their communities, so we have some really stiff competition! <em>Stressful.</em></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">As 2 pm approached concluding the end of week 2 of the Challenge, I was in the company of about 25 women who were enthusiastically watching the leaderboard and supporting Wellspring's campaign in every way they could. All eyes were glued to the cell phone screens as the fundraising totals for all agencies kept changing ("We're in 3rd- by $1,000... another agency just got a $5,000 donation... oh Wellspring just moved ahead!...can we hold the lead?)" <em>Exciting</em></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">While Tuesday's conversation was certainly about the Challenge, this isn't the first time we've gotten together to talk. We've talked before about educating youth, about reducing stigma, about how to talk to a friend who may be experiencing abuse, about changing attitudes that contribute to abuse... and mostly about what they can do <span style="font-size: large;">to end relationship and sexual abuse. Wellspring's not alone in this... we've got a community supporting our vision. <em>Inspiring</em></span></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">We had a quick <a href="https://www.crowdrise.com/fundraiser/campaign-updates/1381551#!/status/2">moment of celebration</a> when Wellspring placed 1st in the nation in the week 2 challenge and- yes!- got the $10,000 bonus funds for programs and services here in Saratoga County, but then all went back to our busy lives. I left there and headed to the ribbon cutting for the Saratoga Home Team. On their really special day as they launched their new business, Karen Charbonneau and Karen Totino chose to share the spotlight to support Wellspring, raising funds and awareness about our work. <em>Grateful</em></span><br />
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<a href="https://3.bp.blogspot.com/-hN8JmiPz6bQ/WefpDQJNw0I/AAAAAAAAByk/Q1zG1fXppGsyrCOWO-Wi-8EPXNr_cuGHQCLcBGAs/s1600/22528936_1848930998468738_4745582698130756602_o.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1060" data-original-width="1600" height="263" src="https://3.bp.blogspot.com/-hN8JmiPz6bQ/WefpDQJNw0I/AAAAAAAAByk/Q1zG1fXppGsyrCOWO-Wi-8EPXNr_cuGHQCLcBGAs/s400/22528936_1848930998468738_4745582698130756602_o.jpg" width="400" /></a><span style="font-size: large;">Throughout the crowd were friends of Wellspring who've championed our work over the years and were following the leaderboard all afternoon. We've always said the key to ending abuse doesn't rest solely in the hands of Wellspring advocates assisting survivors... we'll only achieve or our vision by engaging everyone to create the change so that abuse isn't acceptable in our community. Everywhere I went Tuesday, I saw we're on that path. <em>Hopeful</em></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">When I'd read to my sons about Alexander's bad day, I'd always tell them that tomorrow's a new and different day with new possibilities. Unlike Alexander I had a magnificent day yesterday... but it was just one step along the path. We've got less than 2 weeks left in the Challenge... and a lot of work to do to maintain our standing (and maybe advance into the first place position) so spread the work and let folks know they can help by <a href="https://www.crowdrise.com/wellspring-purplepurse2017">clicking here</a>. And then we've got some more work do to do to create the change needed to <strong>end relationship and sexual abuse</strong>. But, <strong>together, we can do it!</strong></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">There's a saying about domestic violence, "<em>Silence Hides Violence".</em> Tomorrow at 4 pm at Northshire Books, join us-- we're breaking the silence. We're not the only ones doing it. In fact, Liane Moriarty started it with her book, <u>Big Little Lies.</u> Then came the HBO series based on the book. And Nicole Kidman continued the conversation with her Emmy acceptance speech. Tomorrow we're inviting you to be part of the conversation as we have an open community book/series discussion about Big Little Lies.</span><br />
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<a href="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-nXCMQp5o-P4/Wd_nWml8QPI/AAAAAAAABwU/yqa-nLSs2FEdIsoIjIUx2zHmGj4dOuw6QCLcBGAs/s1600/kate%2Bf%2Bicon.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="155" data-original-width="123" height="400" src="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-nXCMQp5o-P4/Wd_nWml8QPI/AAAAAAAABwU/yqa-nLSs2FEdIsoIjIUx2zHmGj4dOuw6QCLcBGAs/s400/kate%2Bf%2Bicon.jpg" width="317" /></a><span style="font-size: large;">The Presbyterian New England Congregational Church is no stranger to helping those in need. From being the site for the Saratoga County Economic Opportunity Council's daily soup kitchen and food pantry, to supporting Code Blue efforts, and the recent Peace Fair, their congregation lives their commitment to be <em>a loving friendly community that worships God and serves others.</em> </span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;"></span><span style="font-size: large;">Pastor Kate Forer spoke with me recently about how the church is a sanctuary where everyone can feel safe, loved and valued... <a href="https://wellspringcares.tumblr.com/tagged/Kate-Forer">click here</a> for her inspiring wish that the Purple Purse Challenge can help make all relationships that same sanctuary for people.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">Today Wellspring is in third place in the nation... because you and all our community members share that same vision. Please spread the word and support Wellspring's Purple Purse Challenge by donating <a href="https://www.crowdrise.com/donate/project/wellspring-purplepurse2017/wellspringofsaratoga/0">here</a>. </span>Mfronkhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09151066365583236310noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1124409983731772298.post-62607879764886778652017-10-10T15:47:00.000-04:002017-10-10T15:47:32.076-04:00Thoughts Over Your Morning Coffee<span style="font-size: large;">Like me, you probably wake up and have a cup of coffee to start your day. Unlike me, you may not wake up most days and start thinking about how we can end domestic violence in our community. </span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">Wellspring is as concerned as Talia from Death Wish about the 1 in 3 teens who experience dating violence. We do extensive outreach to youth for prevention programs and also social change initiatives. If we can teach youth to recognize and take action when they notice abusive behaviors, we're on our way to creating the social change needed to end abuse. To that end, <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ejhdwiRzCT4">here's a video</a> we produced for high school and college age youth about being advocates for change by challenging social norms. Share the video with a young adult you t know (or a parent of one).</span><br />
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Mfronkhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09151066365583236310noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1124409983731772298.post-24494616830582269512017-10-08T14:22:00.000-04:002017-10-08T14:22:37.110-04:00Girlfriends... There's Still TimeYou work hard... you deserve a night like this.<br />
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<span style="font-family: "calibri";">Could you use a gals’ night out with: shopping, fashion
show, pampering (chair massages anyone?), delicious food, and great friends?
Would it be even better if your night of fun benefited other women in need?
Then join us this Wednesday, October 11<sup><span style="font-size: x-small;">th</span></sup> from 6-8:30 pm at
Longfellow’s for <b>Girlfriends Helping Girlfriends</b>. This popular event
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<span style="font-family: "calibri";">Tickets at $50 in advance and $75 at the door. Purchase your
tickets now at </span><a href="https://www.blogger.com/editor/static_files/WellspringCares.org/girls"><span style="color: #0563c1; font-family: "calibri";">WellspringCares.org/girls </span></a><span style="font-family: "calibri";"> or
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Mfronkhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09151066365583236310noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1124409983731772298.post-86952435552784760412017-10-07T14:44:00.000-04:002017-10-07T14:44:08.535-04:00Finding Strength Together<table cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; text-align: center;"><tbody>
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<span style="font-size: large;">I got to Reform Pilates a little early this morning. I've never done a Pilates class and wasn't sure what to expect as I went to my first class. They graciously offered a donation class in support of our Purple Purse Challenge, so what better reason than to try Pilates? As I was sitting looking around the reception area there was a sign with motivational messages about how to make your life exciting, healthy and joyous. One line caught my eye <em>'Every day do something that makes you feel uncomfortable'. </em>OK it's 9:45 in the morning and I'm about to ace that one, I thought.</span><em> </em><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">The class was great fun, but I had to notice that with this Challenge I've been spending a lot more time at my computer and not very much in plank pose. My core muscles are grateful for the reminder...and I'm grateful for the generous support of Reform Pilates.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">And speaking of not shying away from things that are uncomfortable. Our friends at Look TV regularly dedicate their show to conversations about the hard social issues that affect our local communities: homelessness, mental health, poverty, heroin use among our teens... and domestic violence. They're not sensationalizing the problems, they're digging in and having real conversations about how we can educate ourselves and create solutions. Robin Dalton and I met yesterday with Jesse Jackson to talk about an event we're coordinating with Northshire Bookstore to start talking about how we can end domestic violence. I'll give you a hint.. Nicole Kidman would approve! <a href="http://www.looktvonline.com/big-little-lies-interview-2017/">Click here</a> to finds out what we're doing and why Robin and Jesse want you to be part of this. </span><br />
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Mfronkhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09151066365583236310noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1124409983731772298.post-91083704076787675262017-10-06T19:12:00.003-04:002017-10-06T19:23:23.414-04:00People As Diverse As Purses<span style="font-size: large;">Right now we're holding at #2 in the country in the Purple Purse Challenge (but we've got a whole month ahead of us and some very stiff competition.) I'm struck by the diversity of our supporters in both who they are and why they care. I spent a lot of last month hearing from community leaders about why the issue of domestic violence is important to them (<em>check out all of September's blog posts.</em>) We've got men, women, fitness folks, restaurants, attorneys, engineers, poets...and even a dog raising funds to support the cause. Truly our whole community --Tourism, Life Coaching, Digital Marketing ...and Engineers-- are all <span style="font-size: large;">united in our vision of a community free of relationship and sexual abuse. Click on the names of these interesting folks to hear why they're supporting Wellspring's Purple Purse Challenge:</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">The Saratoga County Tourism Bureau knows how to make visitors' vacations in Saratoga enjoyable... but <a href="https://wellspringcares.tumblr.com/tagged/Talia-Cass">Talia Cass</a> also demonstrates that they are also knowledgeable about and sensitive to the many challenges domestic violence survivors face,</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">Fingerpaint Marketing regularly wins national awards for their work. They know how to communicate a message and they acknowledge that domestic violence isn't easy to talk about... but <a href="https://wellspringcares.tumblr.com/tagged/Bo-Goliber">Bo Goliber</a> isn't uncomfortable having the at conversation. They're supporting the Purple Purse Challenge because of Wellspring's work on prevention programs,</span><br />
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</span><span style="font-size: large;">on behalf of women building ships let's hear from <a href="https://wellspringcares.tumblr.com/tagged/Emily-Frantz/">Emily Franz</a>, the president of The Society of Women Engineers</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">Do you share our vision? Please donate today at <a href="https://www.crowdrise.com/wellspring-purplepurse2017">https://www.crowdrise.com/wellspring-purplepurse2017</a></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"></span><br />Mfronkhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09151066365583236310noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1124409983731772298.post-77683822658638189582017-10-05T11:24:00.000-04:002017-10-05T11:24:52.483-04:00Meteorologists, Puppy Pics, Pocketbooks and My Son's First Joke<span style="font-size: large;">Odd blog post title? How are these 4 things related? </span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">I was talking to Jason Gough yesterday and thanking him for using his celebrity not just keep us informed about the weather, but as a voice for victims. During his weather report on Friday Jason did a fun shout out in advance of our Pooch Parade - <a href="http://mcp-media.s3.amazonaws.com/remix/5A0/0B5/5A00B53F0DBF4962B457CB207DCE01BD.mp4">watch it here</a>. Thinking of rain and pooches reminded me of my son Dan's first joke when he was about three. I don't know where he heard it, but he'd tell this joke all the time and decades later I can still picture his whole body bouncing with laughter as he told it:</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">Well we didn't step in any poodles, but I vowed to coordinate with Jason next year to ask for better weather. But people and dogs had a great time, while raising money to support Wellspring's work and our Safe Pet Partnership. Did you miss the Pooch Parade? <strong><a href="https://wellspringcares.tumblr.com/tagged/pooch-parade">Here are some great pictures by photographer Cathy Duffy</a> </strong>of our pooches for peace. Andy, and I would like to offer a big woof and a tail wag to Dr. Maribeth Wallingford and her team at Adirondack Veterinary Clinic for coordinating the Pooch Parade for us.</span></div>
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<a href="https://www.crowdrise.com/media/medium/user_photo-57dac3a199f42.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><span style="font-size: large;"><img alt="Andy," border="0" height="400" src="https://www.crowdrise.com/media/medium/user_photo-57dac3a199f42.jpg" width="399" /></span></a><span style="font-size: large;">Andy was wearing his purple pocketbook all throughout the parade to invite folks to help Wellspring as we participate in Allstate's Purple Purse Challenge. It started on October 2nd we've got until the end of the month to raise funds; we're striving for first place in the country which would earn us $100,000 in bonus funds from Allstate for programs and services here in Saratoga County. #1 in the US is a big goal, but with your help we can do it (we're in second place right now with some very stiff competition). </span><a href="https://www.crowdrise.com/wellspring-purplepurse2017/fundraiser/andyfronk"><span style="font-size: large;">Click here</span></a><span style="font-size: large;"> to support Andy's fundraising efforts and watch a video with Andy and his feline family member, Bob, about how Wellspring helps the forgotten victims of domestic violence, our furry, feathered and finned family members.</span></div>
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<span style="color: #20124d;"><span style="font-size: large;">We've been talking about it all month... and the moment is here. Please join the excitement as Wellspring (and all of our community in Saratoga County) competes in Allstate's Purple Purse Challenge.</span> <span style="font-size: large;">We're trying to place #1 in the nation in demonstrating our whole community's commitment to ending relationship and sexual abuse.</span> </span><br />
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<li><span style="color: #20124d; font-size: large;">Sign up to be one of our Changemakers. You can <strong><u>host your own supporter</u></strong> page on Wellspring's fundraising page. Tell your friends the issue of domestic violence is important to you and ask them to contribute-- every dollar counts!<a href="http://wellspringcares.org/purple-purse"> Click here</a> for info on how to set up your page (just click on the purple "<em>fundraise for this community partner</em>" box.</span></li>
<li><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="color: #20124d;"><strong><u>Coordinate an event at your office</u></strong> to raise awareness and funds (dress down Friday? Celebrate National Taco Day with a potluck lunch-- <em>hint it's tomorrow</em>).</span></span></li>
<li><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="color: #20124d;"><u><strong>Attend one -- or all- of the</strong> <strong>great fundraising events</strong></u> our community partners are hosting to support Wellspring's Purple Purse Challenge. <a href="http://wellspringcares.org/events">Click here</a> for more info about our events.</span></span></li>
<li><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="color: #20124d;"><u><strong><span style="font-size: x-large;">Donate</span></strong></u>. <a href="https://www.crowdrise.com/donate/project/wellspring-purplepurse2017/wellspringofsaratoga/0">Here's the link</a>! You can put your name on the leaderboard...or a message about why you care or words of support for survivors or for those who are currently being abused.</span></span></li>
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Mfronkhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09151066365583236310noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1124409983731772298.post-80695562495265036562017-10-01T14:23:00.000-04:002017-10-01T14:28:50.412-04:00Taking it Off The Mat<span style="font-size: large;">Ahhh.... </span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">I'm feeling totally relaxed, balanced and centered right now. With The Allstate Purple Purse Challenge starting tomorrow, I'm surprised to be saying that, but I just came from yoga class at Yoga Mandali and it was the perfect reset I needed to prep for the start of the month-long challenge. </span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">I'm a regular at Yoga Mandali (don't ask my favorite instructor because they're all terrific. Each one brings a different message to my yoga practice...and my life.) I started yoga for the same reason so many do- the physical practice. After all this body isn't getting any younger and when the day comes that grandkids arrive, I still want to be able to give them horsey rides, teach them how to do cartwheels and take them on hikes up mountains. And yoga does make a big difference physically, but the real differences happen in the head and heart. Yogis always talk about taking their practice and the peace it brings off the mat into the world. I see them doing just that every day. </span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">When I mentioned the Purple Purse Challenge, several of the yogis at Yoga Mandali asked how they could help, I suggested they share their thoughts on Wellspring's vision of ending relationship and sexual abuse... and they certainly did. <a href="https://youtu.be/7R0BvfgVE-M">Click here</a> to hear and see the strength of these humble warriors. </span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">Mahatma Gandhi said, <em><strong>"Be the change you wish to see in the world."</strong></em></span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">Our yogi friends aren't the only ones living that ethic. During October, we've got we got plenty of opportunities for you to workout and make this world a better place: </span><br />
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<li><span style="font-size: large;">Zumba anyone? Go For Fitness is hosting their popular, annual Zumbathon on Saturday. October 14th at 10am. More details to come! Getting in shape, while dancing, & laughing with great music.. sure beats the treadmill!</span></li>
<li><span style="font-size: large;">Wednesday, October 18th at 5 pm, Saratoga Cycling Studio has a karma cycle class (it's free, but again donations accepted to support the Purple Purse Challenge.) I've never done a spin class, but I can't wait. Seeing Gerard's<span style="font-size: large;"> enthusiasm when I visited the studio, it's gotta be fun!</span></span></li>
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Mfronkhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09151066365583236310noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1124409983731772298.post-55737055228035644992017-09-28T15:57:00.000-04:002017-09-28T15:57:38.545-04:00Purses for Seeing What's Possible<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<span style="font-size: large;">Yesterday I spoke with Miriam Dushane of Linium Recruiting. We talked about women's issues, employment, purple purses... and how trapped domestic violence victims can feel because they don't realize there are resources out there that can help them leave the abuse. Miriam has seen the effects of domestic violence in the workplace and also among women she knows. She offers words of encouragement, <strong><em>"There's no reason for you to stay in a relationship that's unhealthy." </em></strong><a href="https://wellspringcares.tumblr.com/tagged/Miriam-Dushane">Click here</a> for more about why Miriam is wearing a purple purse in October.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">Miriam is right. Often people don't come to an agency like Wellspring because they think they need to be in crisis to access our services. They also may not come because they see too many obstacles to leaving and don't feel they have the resources: <em>'How would I afford rent?'</em>... <em>'I don't have money for a lawyer so how would I get an order of protection, custody or child support?'</em>... <em>I can't afford childcare if I go back to work... and what would I do in the summer when school is out. I'd have to leave my job' </em>So they remain in the abuse, because the obstacles to leaving seem insurmountable... and they feel trapped. Wellspring has resources to help with all these obstacles...and you don't need to be in crisis to use our free, confidential services. </span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">Kudos to Miriam and Linium for being so knowledgeable about domestic violence. </span> <span style="font-size: large;">It's important for employers to have an understanding about domestic violence and the resources in our community to support an employee in need.</span> <span style="font-size: large;">When a victim leaves the abuse, the workplace may be the most predictable place to find him/her, so abusers will often stalk, harass or otherwise interfere with their partner's job. Did you</span> <span style="font-size: large;">know:</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">Wellspring provides safety planning for survivors--at home, at school and at work. <span style="font-size: large;">Wellspring also has a toolkit to help managers and supervisors recognize and respond when an employee job performance and safety are being a impacted by domestic violence. <span style="font-size: large;">Wellspring also provides assistance to employers in developing workplace policies to address domestic violence and in helping employers respond when an employee is being abused. </span></span></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">Andy is ready to join his friends from Adirondack Veterinary Clinic and Bensons (where he gets yummy dog biscuits)</span> <span style="font-size: large;">at this year's Pooch Parade.</span> <span style="font-size: large;">There will be a blessing of the pets by the Reverend Peter Klotz, doggy CPR instruction, an obstacle course,</span> <span style="font-size: large;">pawdicures (nail trims) for just $5, and a dog walk. We'll give a special woof to the working dogs in our community, including the K9 dogs from the Sheriff's Dept and the loving pups from Therapy Dogs International who will be at the parade.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">It's a fun day for an important cause. <a href="https://wellspringcares.tumblr.com/tagged/Lisa-Crawford">Click here</a> as Lisa Crawford tells why Maribeth Wallingford DVM and all the staff of Adirondack Veterinary Clinic support the Pooch Parade.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">So join us for this fun, family event:</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">We might think that the best place for kids to learn is in a classroom. But for youth, and for all of us, sometimes our best lessons come when we least expect it. Anders Mattson, the Director of Instruction at Saratoga National Golf Academy, certainly teaches youth about how to swing a golf club... but also teaches about social responsibility. <a href="https://wellspringcares.tumblr.com/tagged/Anders-Mattson">Click here</a> for more from Anders.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">At Wellspring, we understand the powerful influence a coach has on a young athlete. That's why we're bring <em><strong>Coaching Boys into Men</strong>®</em> <em>(CBIM)</em> to schools in Saratoga and Washington Counties, at no cost to the school. CBIM is an evidence based curriculum that's been used across the country and globally that helps coaches incorporate a leadership component into their work with youth so their athletes build respectful and non-violent relationships. <span style="font-size: small;"> </span><span style="font-size: large;">Men-- fathers, uncles,
teachers, and coaches -- have an important and necessary role to play in ending
violence against women and children. <em><strong>Coaching Boys into Men</strong>®</em> has
a growing global community of coaches and athletes helping to prevent domestic
violence and relationship abuse. </span><br />
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If you are interested in learning more about <em><strong>Coaching Boys into Men</strong>® </em>or bringing it to your school, or other athletics program, contact Wellspring. We're committed to providing our community partners the tools so that together we can create the social change needed to end relationship and sexual abuse.<br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">Recently I was speaking with the Reverend Joe Cleveland of the Unitarian Universalist Congregation of Saratoga Springs about domestic violence. His church has long supported the work of Wellspring, because our mission connects so well with the beliefs that underlie their faith. Reverend Cleveland explains that his congregation is, "<strong><em>committed to love, compassion and justice." </em></strong></span><a href="https://wellspringcares.tumblr.com/tagged/Joe-Cleveland"><span style="font-size: large;">Click here</span></a><span style="font-size: large;"> for more about why his church cares... and why he personally is passionately committed to ending domestic violence. </span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">I love sitting in the sanctuary of the Unitarian Universalist Congregation and looking at the beautiful quilt behind the altar (a small section of it shown in the picture above). I often think if we all allowed our every action to be guided by love, truth, tolerance, service, and compassion, how much better this world would be. </span><br />
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